Trending in leadership : character

Apparently we're not talking about "personal leadership" anymore. We're talking about character. Which makes sense as prior to this another buzzword was "genuine".

And I keep thinking about Kipling's poem 'If'. Cos, you know how it goes, even if it's about men, being women we're expected to appropriate male things all the time. So in this case even though it's specifically to men, I totally will appropriate it as it's a great poem about character.

If you can keep your head when all about you   

    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,   

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, 

    But make allowance for their doubting too;   

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, 

    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, 

Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, 

    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise: 

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;   

    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;   

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster 

    And treat those two impostors just the same;   

If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken 

    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, 

Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, 

    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: 

If you can make one heap of all your winnings 

    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, 

And lose, and start again at your beginnings 

    And never breathe a word about your loss; 

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew 

    To serve your turn long after they are gone,   

And so hold on when there is nothing in you 

    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’ 

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,   

    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch, 

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, 

    If all men count with you, but none too much; 

If you can fill the unforgiving minute 

    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,   

Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,   

    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

   Very English. Somewhat Buddhist. A more Christian approach would be to cry with others or feel joy with them: a more empathetic approach. I guess it doesn't talk about how to build those relationships with loving friends. Hmmm. So it's not quite all there. I saw a reference to 'Servant Leadership' on the corporate webpage and almost fell off my chair as that's so Christian. But no worries it referenced a Wikipedia article (being challenged from 2012 as being not sufficiently referenced) referring to Chinese philosophers so no danger of that Christian stuff there. 

Still character is an interesting thing to think about. One step, one day, at a time.